My name is Kim tender (tender is the name God gave me recently)! I grew up fatherless because my dad left us at Christmas for another woman when I was almost 6 years of age! After his departure, my mom was severely shaken in her emotions. So I slipped into the role of a mother as a child. Taking care of her at such a young age, resulted in losing sight of my own wounds and profound pain trapped deep inside my heart. My parents were non-believers, but my mother wanted a good school for me so she sent me to “private school”. I spent my school days in a catholic school, which was a horrible experience! Sadly at 9 years of age I started suffering from an eating disorder called anorexia. It was almost severe to the brink of death. After that I became very rebellious when I was a teenager, I aspired to be strong and master my own life by myself, I thought if I make money and take care of myself and of my mom then, I am perhaps not a burden. However this decision ended in a complete disaster.